There is an old saying that, "The grass is greener on the other side of the fence." This is really a great spur to remembering that someone else's life or circumstances cannot, ultimately, be better than our own. We can only grow, develop and expand from where we are right now. If we concern ourselves about what might be, or what lies on the "other side of the fence," we ignore what is, and much of life passes us by. The video/audio clip referred to in this talk is Jim Lowe's "The Green Door" (with lyrics) (1956) from YouTube at the following link: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8aLOuvRT9wA.